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Jews must love one another

Posted on 19 July 2012 by admin

By Rabbi Yerachmiel D. Fried

Dear Rabbi Fried,

I don’t fully understand what you wrote last week, “Any generation in which the Temple is not rebuilt it is as if they destroyed it.”

I learned that the reason the Temple was destroyed was because the Jews transgressed the three cardinal sins. I haven’t experienced that the Jews of our generation are guilty of those cardinal sins. How does the lack of the rebuilding of the Temple make us liable for those sins? Furthermore, is there some direct correlation between those sins and the Temple for those sins to be the reason for its destruction?

— Morris B.

Dear Morris,

On the day of Tisha B’av, (which we observe this year beginning Saturday night, July 28 and Sunday, July 29), we mourn the destruction of both the first and second Temples, both which were destroyed on the same Hebrew date of Tisha B’av, the ninth day of Av.

The Talmud cites the reason, given by the prophets, of why each of the two Temples was destroyed. As you mentioned, the reason given for the destruction of the Temple was the transgression of the three cardinal sins: idol worship, forbidden sexual relations and murder.

This reason is cited only for the destruction of the first Temple. The second Temple was destroyed for another reason entirely. The Talmud is, in fact, initially perplexed why the second Temple was destroyed since the population was strongly observant, performed acts of kindness and studied Torah.

The final analysis, as I mentioned last week, was because the members of that generation harbored an inner hatred for each other; they were lacking true love for their fellow Jews.

Our generation is not liable for the three cardinal sins. We are not living in the aftermath of the destruction of the first Temple; rather we are denizens of the exile of the second Temple.

When the sages told us that if the Temple wasn’t rebuilt in our generation it’s as if we destroyed it, we need to look at what caused the destruction and subsequent exile that we are living in today; that of the second Temple. This is telling us that we must still be harboring sufficient lack of love, or even hatred, of our fellow Jews to have caused the destruction of the Temple if it would have stood in our generation.

This thought, Morris, I think you would not find to be too far-fetched to entertain, looking at many interactions between fellow Jews which, sadly, do not always reflect the love we hope and expect to see among members of the same family.

The precise definition in the Talmud for the Jews’ downfall at the time of the destruction was “sinat chinam,” or “hatred for no good reason.” This punctuated a deep level of disconnect; of every man for himself, and of looking at each other as foreigners rather than family. With that attitude of division and detachment it did not take much for fights and hatred to flare up. How true that rings today.

The Temple was the dwelling place of the shechinah, or divine presence of the almighty in this world, among the Jewish people. It was His “royal palace,” the site where Jew and gentile alike could come and feel the Kingdom of God.

The sages tell us “there is no king without a nation.” If the nation is not united, it is not really a nation but a bunch of individuals; there’s no honor in reigning over a bunch of disconnected individuals.

Put another way, God is not only our King, but also our Father. A father enjoys visiting his children when they’re all together in a loving way. If, when he comes to be with them, they are all fighting and not showing any love, he will cut his visit short and not want to spend much time dwelling in that situation.

When the Jewish hearts disconnected from each other, God disconnected from the Jewish people. He no longer had a purpose or a desire to dwell among them. The Talmud teaches that “Shalom” is one of the names of God. When there is Shalom among Jews, God dwells among them. When there is enmity between them, He distances himself from them.

If we can use this period to focus upon the positive traits of our fellow Jews, (including, believe it or not, our spouses, children and other family members) and can kindle in our hearts a love for our fellow Jews, we may be well along the path to rebuilding that Temple and welcoming the shechinah back into our midst.

Rabbi Yerachmiel D. Fried, noted scholar and author of numerous works on Jewish law, philosophy and Talmud, is founder and dean of DATA, the Dallas Kollel, Questions can be sent to him at yfried@sbcglobal.net.

1 Comments For This Post

  1. levon Says:

    Dear Rabbi, I read you article Jews must love one another. Okay I have a question for you. Do you think that in God’s eyes that it is right for a rich Jew to steal from a poor Jew ? No, This is not meant to be disrespectful or humourous in any way shape or form. It is a clear cut question that is black and white. Again, I ask do you think in your mind with the knowledge that you have that God intended for Jews to steal and lie about and from other Jews ? I have read the Bible from front to back. I have found no such concessions or justifications that God made for this anywhere in the Bible. When David sinned, He was punished. When the Children of Israel sinned, God punished them. Is there in your mind any justification for deliberatley lying and stealing from another Jew ? If so, Please enlighten me as I have never read where God condoned or justified this for any Jew. And, You did say Jews must love Jews help me to understand how a supposed Jew knowing that I was a Jew could steal from me and lie about me ? I know already what God say’s about Jew’s that say they are Jew’s but, Are of the Synangogue of Satan.

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